Signs she’s the Woman You Should Marry According to the Bible – Marrying someone is not to be taken lightly, as we all know probably from the teachings of our faiths, parents, movies, and books that we read. When a man intends to propose and make her the one who stays with him for better or for worse he must already take into consideration all the advice and signs given by his family.
Proposing to someone who is not fit for the role of a wife will surely affect the spark that you have right now and will surely make both live an unhealthy married life. Marrying someone too early in the relationship would surely be a bad sign for us, but for the Bible, it speaks differently. The Bible speaks from the heart and is the word of God what could go wrong.
So how does a man know that his fiancée or to be fiancée is the woman he should marry, well worry not because the Bible has got you covered with all the signs and the way a proper wife should be living. Here are the verses from the Bible picked out with the sign that you should marry a woman according to the trait mentioned.
From Proverbs Chapter 31 verse 30 we got
“Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting: but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.”
The verse means that the sign here is she should be God-fearing.By fear, it can also mean respect and fear simultaneously. A woman who fears God respect Gods and would want nothing than her husband and children to respect God as well. This humbleness before God and the faith will surely make her loyal, faithful, healthy blessed with integrity and kindness for He is kind to all.
From First Corinthians Chapter 7 verse 4 we got
“The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yields it to his wife.”
A loyal and faithful woman is the sign here. No one likes to be betrayed, and we often reward people who are loyal to us. Just as so we must also be loyal to them. A faithful and loyal woman will stay by your side for all the days to come either good or bad. Just the fact that she is devoted to you should automatically make you committed to her.
Many couples often fight due to the disobedience of the other over some small things. If she has faith in you, she will try to understand your point and not argue as you will do the same to be fair.
From Proverbs 31 verse 13-15 we got
“She selects wool and flax and works with eager hands. She is like the merchant ships, bringing her food from afar. She gets up while it is still night; she provides food for her family and portions for her female servants.”
A good wife takes care of her family and home. Like the verse mentioned to a wife, a family must take priority first. Does this ring any bell? Well, it is exactly like your mother. Your mother is probably the one you thought of when the words family and home is mentioned. Just like your loving and caring mother, the wife you yearn for must follow her excellent example, and you must see signs for this.
From Proverbs Chapter 31 verse 11 we got
“Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value.”
A trustworthy person, if you cannot trust your wife when she is out shopping, sleepovers and away on meetings. You will most probably feel insecure, dubious and insanely jealous if she has a lot of male friends. To avoid all these negative feelings you will need to make sure that your wife is someone you can put full faith into. Speaking of hope here is how your priority in faith must stand. God comes first and wife comes second and third is family and friends.
From Proverbs Chapter 31 verse 11-12 we got
“She brings him good not harm, all the days of her life.”
A good wife will surely bring more good and positive vibes into your life and never the negative feelings to you. Sure there might be days you are fighting and quarreling, but a good wife will always try to understand and give you the understanding that you need to work it out. She will bring out the best in you and will surely make you a better man. She will make your mindset, heart set, health set and set to be sound.
From Proverbs Chapter 31 verse 20 we got
“She opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy.”
A right person feels bad for the weak, a great person tries to help the poor, and an even more exceptional person helps the poor. Just the fact that she is kind enough and is generous to people who are in a smaller or worse situation than her earns her a medal in humanity. A wife that looks down or more impoverished families and friends will only make you enemies, while a generous wife will give a lot and get tons more in return and give your real family prosperity.
From Proverbs Chapter 31 verse 27 we got
“She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness.”
The verse shows that a good wife shall not be lazy and instead handle the affairs of the household when her husband is away. A lazy wife will get you late on your bills and lavish you in debt. Laziness is sloth and sloth is a very pure sin which must not be encouraged.
Laziness will destroy your home and family while a woman of action will always be there for the family and she knits the family together like a spider weaving his webs around the center.
From Proverbs Chapter 25 verse 24 we got
“Better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife.”
A bickering and nagging wife will slowly eat you up inside and sooner or later destroy your family. Not only is she not a good example for your kids she is also a nuisance for the neighborhood which destroys the goodwill of your household. Understand that women change after giving birth, but the habit of bickering and nagging has roots in the form of practices from way back.
From Proverbs Chapter 19 verse 14 we got
“Houses and wealth are inherited from parents, but a prudent wife is from the Lord.”
A good girlfriend or fiancee or wife will always care for your future. Well, how do you know if she cares about you? You can see it from her concerns about your future. If she is not having any interest in what you are doing, your studies, your future career and all the other things that you have planned then you surely must do a lot of thinking. A good wife will always act with care taking your future into consideration.
From Ephesians Chapter 5 verse 22-23 we got
“Wives, submit yourselves to your husbands as you do to the Lord.For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. “
A good wife will follow your lead and have faith in you. One of the hardest and yet most effective ways for wives to show their love is to be submissive. Hard is mentioned since in this age of feminism and gender equality women do not like to be seen as weaker. However, we cannot blame them due to the history of all those men who have mistreated their rights as husbands.
However, the Bible clearly states that wives should be submissive. But to do that the husband must make himself worthy and understanding. If you are fit and she is still showing ego and pride as a woman, she may not make such a good wife.
From Proverbs Chapter 31 verse 10 we got
“A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies.”
She is an exceptional being in your eyes. In other words, you find her extraordinary and wonderful to have in your life. If she makes you feel in such a way, she might be the one true wife.
With all the verses taken from the Bible, you can understand that a woman should respect God first of all and be human most of all. A respectful and loving husband will probably get a wife who is faithful and have immense respect for her husband. All the signs are mentioned with the hope that you find the trait you are looking for in a woman.